Time

Isn't it so mesmerising as well as Saddening   that time is never the same ,..even at the very next moment.It gives you immense pleasure at some times as well as thrashes you to pieces some other times...
I Just had a look at my father ....he was asking me to have food he was eating...but at that moment all i did was to watch him...i saw him how he was eating ..how he was speaking....it seemed to me as if i have never watched him throughout my life ....never before i had seen him....just then i got the idea that this is not going to be the same forever,i felt like crying even now....today i am here ,he is here,all my comforts and houndreds of things to eat and most importantly,,people around me that love me.......why doesnt everything remain same forever? I wish i could get hold of one thing....Time....its is ever going,i wish i could sieze that moment.But its immensly saddening that its gonna change....all i did all my life was to take everything for granted.i took my grandfather for granted, now he is no more....i took my school life for granted ,,,now i m in college,,
How can someone deal with the fact that he/she is going to die one day..if all is destined to die why it was even there....??
I don't know answers to any of these....
All i can say is please ..please..whoever reads this....just have a look at the people in your family and the people you love....know that nothing is permanent ..and everything is going to be over........
Whenever such a thing comes in mind,petty issues do not even remain issues...
Stop being angry on them...stop judging them ....sacrifice some of your happiness for theirs....it may or may not be a big thing thing to do,,but it will surely make you happier at the moment.

Thanks
Shariq

The love chains...

The love chain...
Sounds too creepy.. Eh...love chains.....but this of my article.. As i think, will help many of the love striken people.....well.. Now by saying "love striken", I am referring to those who run behind their love for like...forever.. And end up being a stupid fellow by getting rejected eventually. And then they try to figure out where they went wrong.... They love someone more than anything else..but really don't get anything in return, except rude talks and ignorance.... Well i am here to make u understand why this shit happens...though it happens literally with everyone of us.....most probably with our first love....

Let me try to make u understand this.... Why i called this as a chain...
Now... Imagine a person X(teenager)deeply in love with another person.. They both feel the pinch in their hearts when they think or even name each other....they are always looking for each others messages and calls....they love like its never going to end and all the craps like that....but somehow, whatever be the reason... A partner breaks up.... And it literally hurts....😢...well.. The person keeps on crying for like...days...or even months.....but eventually hormone levels go down... And a new search begins...but ATTENTION!!  X is  shattered and this has completely changed him/her.....

U give what u have.... 
As simple as that... So..X is going to do the same with the next person he relates with...as he has his past experiences...which force him to radiate what is inside him...
X will catch up with the next person,,try to make the other person fall in love with him,,and finally ditching him/her....or might carry on so as to make his ex jealous....same would be done by his partner to another person... And then the chain of fake love and ditches gooooo onn....


See.. What happens with every person in teenage is the rapid flow of hormones...and that.. Coupled with our peers and our society makes us want someone of opposite sex in our life.... We see couples hanging out and making love... That make us carved for it too....we all want an appreciation from someone and we want someone we can say.... Like yes.."he or she belongs to me"..

U see the problem is not love.... Love is the most beautiful thing in the world... It's a form of devotion.....but its the timing that messes up everything......

When its the time for us to find our intrests and career around what we love to do,, we are just thinking about the other person everytime stupidly....coz we know love...but we really dont know how to control it......

Yes... Love also needs control....like every other thing needs.....

U see... If u re a teenager, then my friend... Mind my words... It's really not the time.... U should be busy doing what u love... Rather than just falling in love and destroying lives and starting a love chain....

How can u stop thinking about the other person......
The key is UNDERSTANDING..... Understand yourself... How your brain works.... Give time to you..... Feel your breath(literally its the best thing to make u feel better)...travel around... Alone.......
Dude...u are a human..... U are not just born to come here in this shitty world and spend miserable life without any passions or desires and die as if u re no one.....following others...
 U have ur mind which is in no case(literally) different from that of Einstein's...... U need to realise that.....
Have control...
Love yourself first....only then you can give love..... 
Follow you passions rather than following girls/boys...
If you have fallen in the love chain.....don't take ur revenge from the next person.. Who might be an innocent person.... Just forget everything and focus on yourself....
Be a man/woman of power and control..

Though its a really sensitive topic to write about.....hope someone will learn someday...including me...



Regards
ADMIN

ALIVE OR DEAD.....???

                              ALIVE OR DEAD.....

HEHE.....What a silly question to ask!!...Don't u think.....i mean,everyone knows about it that who is alive and who is dead and what are the things that are living and what are those that don't.

so,let me show my stupidity again....Do you know who is alive...?

Basically , I don't want to make u confused about your life and don't want to impose on you my thinking either,,all I want is to thrash those old beliefs that are imposed upon you .All I want from you is to have an open mind and think everything from your perspective.

If you think that a person who is eating,breathing,working,walking and doing anything is alive,you may be wrong . At the same time ,if you think that soil , water ,air rainfall ,mountains,deserts are dead...then..STOP..,you might be wrong here too!!

Let me show you how;-

THINK;- how do we define everything in the universe...;as matter ,,alright,,.and how do we define matter ...as atoms...or their group....and how do we define atoms...as non living.....

that means a group of atoms is also non living..howsoever big their number is....O.K. fine..

Coming to another point,let's think what we all are made up of...ans is cells ...but ultimately .,we find that we too are made up of the same thing ...ATOMS......and then what does it shows ...??

It shows that you,,I and everything else is non living in this world..

Don't worry,,I am going to make it easier for you as you move on towards the end of this article....

Let me show you more clues..

Now,,if breathing air is a sign of living ,then ,what would you call ocean which has enormous amount of air dissolved in it ,,??Also, gases keep on going to the water and coming outside of it..

If giving life (birth) is a clue of being alive ,,then what would you call soil which has given birth to all plants on this earth...?

If movement meant being alive ,,then earth is much more alive than you..

If having others just like you meant being alive ...then earth,,sun ,,,mountains...galaxies all are alive.....

Frustrated..??Disgusted..?Confused...?or aroused....?? ,,,Curious ...most probably...

If you want to ask me my point,,I would say...

''Everything is alive ...nothing is dead ....

and 

nothing is alive ...everything is dead.....

only...

and only...

''My consciousness makes anything whatever it is..''

EVERYTHING...yes ..everything that exists is because you think that it exists..its all inside your mind and consciousness...

Here is the most important point..

If by your thinking ,you can define life and existence,,how cannot you change your failure into your success by giving a thought about how you failed and how you can succeed...

so, why to follow anyone's blind assumptions ??why not experience everything yourself ..??

Why to run around in search of luxuries and money...?why not bear a little pain to give others a reason to smile....??

Why to do anything to please others ...?why not please your own soul..??..that is your real mate ...yes ..you are your mate..

Just takes a second to die..so, why to regret about anything at that time ..??why just don't do it now...?

So, give everything a go...listen to what your soul says ,,and say YES...I am ON....

 

SPREAD SMILES ...SPREAD HAPPINESS ....TALKSOUL...

REGARDS

TALKSOUL

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THE END OF ALL YOUR WORRIES

Everywhere, all around you see that everyone is damn worried....about anything and everything.I am sure ,you must have experienced some sort of depression or nervous breakdowns in your life ,,,of course, i have experienced it many times and that's why i am here to help u get out of that situation ,This is how you can TALK TO YOUR SOUL which will guide you out of any bad situation and may even give you immense happiness and pleasure in your life in the long run....
So, here we go,
 Look , everyone around us needs happines , but the problem is, they want it from others ,but they don't even know , that happiness is inside them deep rooted !!!you won't be happy EVER in your life if you can't find it inside you and expect others to give it to you.

WHY TO JUDGE OTHERS ?
If you are judging a person that he/she  is bad , or he is doing an evil deed , then stop for a second , think about it .DID HE ASK YOU? WHAT HE IS DOING IS GOOD OR NOT ?  You are automatically directing your sub conscious mind to think bad... And when it thinks bad ,,it will feel bad that is for sure ...so just let everyone go whatever they are doing or have done to you .....who cares man ...
Second thing is ....

STOP EXPECTING 
Lord Buddha said ," desires are the root cause of all worries".And so are the expectations .....they are a form of desires that are nothing but parasites for us .....whenever you are not happy, everytime the reason is same THINK ABOUT IT ...and the reason is ," things don't take place as they should have taken place , and others don't work as we have wanted them to work"
Take the cause out of its root and it will never be at the same place again.

EXCHANGE SITUATIONS 
Whenever you want someone to work for you ,just ask yourself,, WHY WOULD HE? is there any of his benifits in working for you , if not , .....then why would he ?everyone works for their own benifit , even you ,so why can't anyone else?
Put yourself at other person's place ....and you will find you would also have behaved exactly same as he did .

WORK FOR YOUR DREAMS RATHER THAN OTHER'S
You will automatically feel happier if you start doing what you LOVE rather than that to which you are just attracted.Do anything because you love doing it ,and not because you are going earn something from it .Many of the greatest personalities in the world are great because they did what they love ,they did not actually wanted to become great , they just wanted to do it endlessly .



So , here is a small group of ways to tackle difficulties .Hope you will Talksoul .Believe that you have endless powers to change YOURSELF for good of you .I did it , and it feels like top of the world .


Regards
TALKSOUL
(Explore the extremes within you)

PARENTS Vs CHILDREN

This is a common problem of our present community.Parents find that their wards are not doing well ,whatever their ward do,they want more out of them.While on the another side wards find their parents non intrested in their personal intrests and trying to impose their own intrests over them.If you are going through all this ,stay patient ,we have a solution for you.

PRESENT SCENARIO
Over expectation of parents ------
Non-understanding of each others needs -----
Parents are actually defensive about their ward's future and thus ,they just want them to leave everything apart and focus on their studies-----
Children have their own life .They want to lead a carefree and self made life-----(you may be one of them)
But this demands patience ,time and perseverance ,at the same time,parents want quick success for their children ,thus time lag annoys parents -----
Then starts the retreat of happiness form lives of both.

THE ROOT CAUSE -GENERATION GAP
This is the major driving force behind decreasing stabilities of families.Parent have lived their life in a totally different situation,but the problem is,they think situation is still the same which is not at all true.

SOLUTION
TIMES CHANGE- And the best way to be happy is to change with time.
ON PARENTS SIDE..
        Should allow your wards to lead their life on their own .
No need to force anyone .
Forcing even annoys animals.
Just see the whole day of your ward ,and try to understand his patterns ,which games he like,which movies he watch,which type of friends he has.This information can tell a lot about a person.-----
Try not to tell him your intrests, but try to know his intrests and help him .
Try to turn his intrests into his passion,so that whatever he does is out of his intrests only .He will then give 100% efforts and this may change everything.-----
Help him emotionally when he fails.
This is how you become his friend.
ON WARD'S SIDE
       UNDERSTAND YOUR PARENTS--They are never wrong .They may be partially wrong sometimes but they want you to succeed and that's all.
Just explain them what are your dreams and what you want to achieve and how you are going to do it.

STOP JUDGING YOUR PARENTS
You may say that your parents are not focussing much on you or that they are not doing what they should do ,so ,my friend ,do your work ,let them do theirs.-----
Just find your intrests (you won't have to dig deep to find them)and let yourself flow into it.DO WHATEVER YOU CAN.....YES ...EVERYTHING YOU CAN TO ACHIEVE IT .
SWAMI VIVEKANANDA has said
"ARISE,AWAKE,AND STOP NOT UNTIL THE GOAL IS REACHED"

Finally,
EXPLORE THE EXTREMES WITHIN YOU..
Otherwise,open this post on your parent's phone and let us handle them.

COMMEMTS ARE INVITED
REGARDS
ADMIN

IF U ARE TOO MUCH CONFUSED........JUST EXPLORE

So , here u go.... By the time u are going to read this.... I dont say u are going to get supernatural powers or some sort of energy ......neither my NOT SO WORTHY FOR YOU thoughts or thinking.....but your own thoughts and powers that are surely going to make u lead a different life ahead....


Basically,everyone is wholly or partially confused ,some about religion,some about spirituality ,some about job ,money,wife,girlfriends,society, and are fully drowned in their life.....without actually realising in which way their life is going.....everyone is in a real rush to show this world that THEY EXIST...and  this is totally justified ,as we all are different and so are our capabilities and we do have a right to say our opinion and show this world our way....thats true ..but while doing all this ,we are in a real hurry and we just forget to live this moment.Then ,we regret all the way down our life ,if you are one of the victims,this is for you.


Coming to the point,when a computer gets too much commands...it hangs.....so does our brain....so ...if ,at this point ,if you are going to say,DUDE.... STOP THIS BULLSHIT AND TELL US THE SOLUTION,..then just keep  moving on....u are going to get it .....not by me ...but by your own self ....i am just going to show you the way....


now,the point is....how to EXPLORE...??
first of all.

..STOP BLAIMING YOURSELVES.....
We all think that something bad is happening in our lives is because you have done something wrong in your past.....i mean ...whyy....remember ...you are at this place because of all the conditions and circumstances that took place in your lives ...life goes that way....we all have ups and downs .....why to regret for anything....THIS IS THE BASIC CAUSE OF OUR WORRY.....and its ..REGRET....

START LIVING...
you may ask here "are we dead that u are asking us to start living"...
Well let me tell you ...you are not here to be born ...live as everone else is living ..marry..reproduce ..and die after some sixty or eighty years ...and while dying you are thinking...." I wish i could have done bunjee jumping when i was young"...or "wish i could have done pilot training so that i would be a pilot "...we all know that is a waste.......
Living is when you know all about yourselves and your surroundings.....and every second you know that yes ...you are alive and you clearly have a purpose in your mind abut what you are going to do and how are you going to do it...

TALK TO YOURSELF.....
well ,that's the basic purpose why talksoul is designed.Give your time to that person who is most important in your life i.e, YOU ,yes .ultimately its you who is going to help you at last when you are at your worst.Spend just 10 minutes just before sleep about what you did wrong to people and what needs to be corrected .If you find yourself as a culprit then correct it .
More importantly,

GO FOR A LONELY  WALK
its really the best way to know yourself.Go to a place you like to visit more often .Sit down,Relax.and think.

PICTURISE YOURSELF AT YOUR BEST IN YOUR MIND
This technique is used by olympians and sportpersons .Think about where you want to reach and assume you have got all that you desire.Then tell us the results in comments below.

BRING ON THE BIGGEST SMILE ON YOUR FACE
you will automatically feel happy.





These were the basic tips to be happy .In the coming sessions,we are going to talk about more different aspects .We will try our best out to improve as we go on .Waiting for the comments.
We wholeheartedly invite suggestions .



REGARDS...
ADMIN