The love chain...
Sounds too creepy.. Eh...love chains.....but this of my article.. As i think, will help many of the love striken people.....well.. Now by saying "love striken", I am referring to those who run behind their love for like...forever.. And end up being a stupid fellow by getting rejected eventually. And then they try to figure out where they went wrong.... They love someone more than anything else..but really don't get anything in return, except rude talks and ignorance.... Well i am here to make u understand why this shit happens...though it happens literally with everyone of us.....most probably with our first love....
Let me try to make u understand this.... Why i called this as a chain...
Now... Imagine a person X(teenager)deeply in love with another person.. They both feel the pinch in their hearts when they think or even name each other....they are always looking for each others messages and calls....they love like its never going to end and all the craps like that....but somehow, whatever be the reason... A partner breaks up.... And it literally hurts....😢...well.. The person keeps on crying for like...days...or even months.....but eventually hormone levels go down... And a new search begins...but ATTENTION!! X is shattered and this has completely changed him/her.....
U give what u have....
As simple as that... So..X is going to do the same with the next person he relates with...as he has his past experiences...which force him to radiate what is inside him...
X will catch up with the next person,,try to make the other person fall in love with him,,and finally ditching him/her....or might carry on so as to make his ex jealous....same would be done by his partner to another person... And then the chain of fake love and ditches gooooo onn....
See.. What happens with every person in teenage is the rapid flow of hormones...and that.. Coupled with our peers and our society makes us want someone of opposite sex in our life.... We see couples hanging out and making love... That make us carved for it too....we all want an appreciation from someone and we want someone we can say.... Like yes.."he or she belongs to me"..
U see the problem is not love.... Love is the most beautiful thing in the world... It's a form of devotion.....but its the timing that messes up everything......
When its the time for us to find our intrests and career around what we love to do,, we are just thinking about the other person everytime stupidly....coz we know love...but we really dont know how to control it......
Yes... Love also needs control....like every other thing needs.....
U see... If u re a teenager, then my friend... Mind my words... It's really not the time.... U should be busy doing what u love... Rather than just falling in love and destroying lives and starting a love chain....
How can u stop thinking about the other person......
The key is UNDERSTANDING..... Understand yourself... How your brain works.... Give time to you..... Feel your breath(literally its the best thing to make u feel better)...travel around... Alone.......
Dude...u are a human..... U are not just born to come here in this shitty world and spend miserable life without any passions or desires and die as if u re no one.....following others...
U have ur mind which is in no case(literally) different from that of Einstein's...... U need to realise that.....
Have control...
Love yourself first....only then you can give love.....
Follow you passions rather than following girls/boys...
If you have fallen in the love chain.....don't take ur revenge from the next person.. Who might be an innocent person.... Just forget everything and focus on yourself....
Be a man/woman of power and control..
Though its a really sensitive topic to write about.....hope someone will learn someday...including me...
Regards
ADMIN
Sounds too creepy.. Eh...love chains.....but this of my article.. As i think, will help many of the love striken people.....well.. Now by saying "love striken", I am referring to those who run behind their love for like...forever.. And end up being a stupid fellow by getting rejected eventually. And then they try to figure out where they went wrong.... They love someone more than anything else..but really don't get anything in return, except rude talks and ignorance.... Well i am here to make u understand why this shit happens...though it happens literally with everyone of us.....most probably with our first love....
Let me try to make u understand this.... Why i called this as a chain...
Now... Imagine a person X(teenager)deeply in love with another person.. They both feel the pinch in their hearts when they think or even name each other....they are always looking for each others messages and calls....they love like its never going to end and all the craps like that....but somehow, whatever be the reason... A partner breaks up.... And it literally hurts....😢...well.. The person keeps on crying for like...days...or even months.....but eventually hormone levels go down... And a new search begins...but ATTENTION!! X is shattered and this has completely changed him/her.....
U give what u have....
As simple as that... So..X is going to do the same with the next person he relates with...as he has his past experiences...which force him to radiate what is inside him...
X will catch up with the next person,,try to make the other person fall in love with him,,and finally ditching him/her....or might carry on so as to make his ex jealous....same would be done by his partner to another person... And then the chain of fake love and ditches gooooo onn....
See.. What happens with every person in teenage is the rapid flow of hormones...and that.. Coupled with our peers and our society makes us want someone of opposite sex in our life.... We see couples hanging out and making love... That make us carved for it too....we all want an appreciation from someone and we want someone we can say.... Like yes.."he or she belongs to me"..
U see the problem is not love.... Love is the most beautiful thing in the world... It's a form of devotion.....but its the timing that messes up everything......
When its the time for us to find our intrests and career around what we love to do,, we are just thinking about the other person everytime stupidly....coz we know love...but we really dont know how to control it......
Yes... Love also needs control....like every other thing needs.....
U see... If u re a teenager, then my friend... Mind my words... It's really not the time.... U should be busy doing what u love... Rather than just falling in love and destroying lives and starting a love chain....
How can u stop thinking about the other person......
The key is UNDERSTANDING..... Understand yourself... How your brain works.... Give time to you..... Feel your breath(literally its the best thing to make u feel better)...travel around... Alone.......
Dude...u are a human..... U are not just born to come here in this shitty world and spend miserable life without any passions or desires and die as if u re no one.....following others...
U have ur mind which is in no case(literally) different from that of Einstein's...... U need to realise that.....
Have control...
Love yourself first....only then you can give love.....
Follow you passions rather than following girls/boys...
If you have fallen in the love chain.....don't take ur revenge from the next person.. Who might be an innocent person.... Just forget everything and focus on yourself....
Be a man/woman of power and control..
Though its a really sensitive topic to write about.....hope someone will learn someday...including me...
Regards
ADMIN
