PARENTS Vs CHILDREN

This is a common problem of our present community.Parents find that their wards are not doing well ,whatever their ward do,they want more out of them.While on the another side wards find their parents non intrested in their personal intrests and trying to impose their own intrests over them.If you are going through all this ,stay patient ,we have a solution for you.

PRESENT SCENARIO
Over expectation of parents ------
Non-understanding of each others needs -----
Parents are actually defensive about their ward's future and thus ,they just want them to leave everything apart and focus on their studies-----
Children have their own life .They want to lead a carefree and self made life-----(you may be one of them)
But this demands patience ,time and perseverance ,at the same time,parents want quick success for their children ,thus time lag annoys parents -----
Then starts the retreat of happiness form lives of both.

THE ROOT CAUSE -GENERATION GAP
This is the major driving force behind decreasing stabilities of families.Parent have lived their life in a totally different situation,but the problem is,they think situation is still the same which is not at all true.

SOLUTION
TIMES CHANGE- And the best way to be happy is to change with time.
ON PARENTS SIDE..
        Should allow your wards to lead their life on their own .
No need to force anyone .
Forcing even annoys animals.
Just see the whole day of your ward ,and try to understand his patterns ,which games he like,which movies he watch,which type of friends he has.This information can tell a lot about a person.-----
Try not to tell him your intrests, but try to know his intrests and help him .
Try to turn his intrests into his passion,so that whatever he does is out of his intrests only .He will then give 100% efforts and this may change everything.-----
Help him emotionally when he fails.
This is how you become his friend.
ON WARD'S SIDE
       UNDERSTAND YOUR PARENTS--They are never wrong .They may be partially wrong sometimes but they want you to succeed and that's all.
Just explain them what are your dreams and what you want to achieve and how you are going to do it.

STOP JUDGING YOUR PARENTS
You may say that your parents are not focussing much on you or that they are not doing what they should do ,so ,my friend ,do your work ,let them do theirs.-----
Just find your intrests (you won't have to dig deep to find them)and let yourself flow into it.DO WHATEVER YOU CAN.....YES ...EVERYTHING YOU CAN TO ACHIEVE IT .
SWAMI VIVEKANANDA has said
"ARISE,AWAKE,AND STOP NOT UNTIL THE GOAL IS REACHED"

Finally,
EXPLORE THE EXTREMES WITHIN YOU..
Otherwise,open this post on your parent's phone and let us handle them.

COMMEMTS ARE INVITED
REGARDS
ADMIN

IF U ARE TOO MUCH CONFUSED........JUST EXPLORE

So , here u go.... By the time u are going to read this.... I dont say u are going to get supernatural powers or some sort of energy ......neither my NOT SO WORTHY FOR YOU thoughts or thinking.....but your own thoughts and powers that are surely going to make u lead a different life ahead....


Basically,everyone is wholly or partially confused ,some about religion,some about spirituality ,some about job ,money,wife,girlfriends,society, and are fully drowned in their life.....without actually realising in which way their life is going.....everyone is in a real rush to show this world that THEY EXIST...and  this is totally justified ,as we all are different and so are our capabilities and we do have a right to say our opinion and show this world our way....thats true ..but while doing all this ,we are in a real hurry and we just forget to live this moment.Then ,we regret all the way down our life ,if you are one of the victims,this is for you.


Coming to the point,when a computer gets too much commands...it hangs.....so does our brain....so ...if ,at this point ,if you are going to say,DUDE.... STOP THIS BULLSHIT AND TELL US THE SOLUTION,..then just keep  moving on....u are going to get it .....not by me ...but by your own self ....i am just going to show you the way....


now,the point is....how to EXPLORE...??
first of all.

..STOP BLAIMING YOURSELVES.....
We all think that something bad is happening in our lives is because you have done something wrong in your past.....i mean ...whyy....remember ...you are at this place because of all the conditions and circumstances that took place in your lives ...life goes that way....we all have ups and downs .....why to regret for anything....THIS IS THE BASIC CAUSE OF OUR WORRY.....and its ..REGRET....

START LIVING...
you may ask here "are we dead that u are asking us to start living"...
Well let me tell you ...you are not here to be born ...live as everone else is living ..marry..reproduce ..and die after some sixty or eighty years ...and while dying you are thinking...." I wish i could have done bunjee jumping when i was young"...or "wish i could have done pilot training so that i would be a pilot "...we all know that is a waste.......
Living is when you know all about yourselves and your surroundings.....and every second you know that yes ...you are alive and you clearly have a purpose in your mind abut what you are going to do and how are you going to do it...

TALK TO YOURSELF.....
well ,that's the basic purpose why talksoul is designed.Give your time to that person who is most important in your life i.e, YOU ,yes .ultimately its you who is going to help you at last when you are at your worst.Spend just 10 minutes just before sleep about what you did wrong to people and what needs to be corrected .If you find yourself as a culprit then correct it .
More importantly,

GO FOR A LONELY  WALK
its really the best way to know yourself.Go to a place you like to visit more often .Sit down,Relax.and think.

PICTURISE YOURSELF AT YOUR BEST IN YOUR MIND
This technique is used by olympians and sportpersons .Think about where you want to reach and assume you have got all that you desire.Then tell us the results in comments below.

BRING ON THE BIGGEST SMILE ON YOUR FACE
you will automatically feel happy.





These were the basic tips to be happy .In the coming sessions,we are going to talk about more different aspects .We will try our best out to improve as we go on .Waiting for the comments.
We wholeheartedly invite suggestions .



REGARDS...
ADMIN